Spend part or all of a kissing session concentrating on just your lips... no tongues allowed. Slowly slide your lips together, enjoying the subtle feeling of each other's skin.Lick, nibble, kiss each other's mouths... go slow, and really enjoy the sensations. This exercise should make you more aware of your lips,and will add a new layer to your kissing experience.own style, philosophies, and 'moves.' At the same time, kissing is an Exercise in Compromise. Any kisser who is unwilling to adjust to their partner is... well... not a very good kisser. Good kissing is all about finding middle ground.One good way to help yourselves concentrateon the kiss is to try to read each other's thoughts (and not in a neurotic, annoying way) while kissing. Really try to see into your partner's mind, and attempt to make a connection. Don't necessarily expect to pick up images of the dog they had when they were three years old, but rather use this as a way to really concentrate on yourpartner and the kiss.
Lips
The Lips Talking about simple... where else to start than... The Lips! The most basic element of any kiss, in fact vital andinsepara- ble from the act itself. There is no kissing without lips (ask your local chickens), so don't neglect them! On a physical level, take care of your lips. Chapped lips (while a great Custom E-kiss) are no fun at all to kiss. The same goes for rough, scabbed, or otherwise
poor condition lips. Most of these conditions can be avoided through the use of a simple lip balm... find one that suits your preferences. Depending on what you like,you can get different flavors, varying degree of healing and therapy ,SPF (sunscreen) protection... the choices are endless.Use your chosen balm regularly, not just when you are expect- ing some kissing... it's just a good idea to take care of you- rself. Also try to avoid applying balm directly before kissing... slimy lips can be a turn off.Just make sure it's all absorbed before getting down to business... and your lips will be soft, supple, and oh-so- kissable. Once your lips are kissable, and you are in fact kissing... you still can't neglect them! .The lips are the most basic and important element of kissing, and should be used to the best of their ability. Concentrate on feeling the friction between your lips, how your lips match up, and how you're moving them. This oft-overlooked element can add some real zing to your kissing. Just try to remember that the tongue is not the be-all and end-all of kissing...
Dont Neglect your Lips
Lots of great kisses are, in fact, all lips. Ever since the French pulled a Microsoft on the kissing market, tongues have gotten all the attention. Many terrible kissing experie- nces are a direct result of this over-reliance (and unskilled use of) the tongue. Certainly the tongue is important to kissing... after all, what beats a really good deep french kiss? But tongue use is some- thing best eased into... and can easily be overdone. Even really good tongue kisses can benefit from some variety... usually of the lip-centered kind. Take a break from tongue lashing to nibble, caress,lick, and gently explore your partner's lips. Notice how good they feel against yours, and try different things to make them feel even better. Your lips the building blocks of great kissing. use them wisely (and often!).
Breath Movement
When kissing, there is always one simple rule that must be obeyed: Remember to breathe!!! Oxygen, you may have noticed,plays a fairly important part in this whole "living" thing, so it probably shouldn't be neglected. Really good kisses,howe- ver, have the tendency to make one forget all that, as you'd rather keep kissing than take a break for stupid air. Rest assured, breathe a little now, and your kissing will go on a lot longer.
The actual mechanics of breathing during kissing are up to various interpretations.Sometimes you can just rely on the old nose to do its duty, and breath through that.Sometimes (cold and flu season) For example that's just not possible. Then it's time to get creative. As with everything else,it works out best if you can work it into the flow of the kiss.
This is a great opportunity to give some feedback while taking care of your oxygen needs. Just take a break to pant a bit, or kiss their neck, or do a little 'lip dancing'.. anything to break the seal of a deep kiss and fill those lungs. Breathing is important, so don't forget it.often!).
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